Posted by Dina on July-31-2009

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When we seek for connection, we restore the world to wholeness.
Our seemingly separate lives become meaningful
as we discover how truly necessary we are to each other.

–Margaret Wheatley

This is a picture of me and my BESTEST guy friend in the whole world, Peter.
Peter is a type Six with a Seven wing and a psychotherapist in private practice.  He’s also an extrovert which (combined with the 6w7wing) makes him quite the connection junkie.  He loves spending time with friends, and social groups with a shared purpose or common goal.

He is very masterful at making me feel safe and cared for.  When he comes and picks me up for a ride, I can shut off the part of my brain that worries.  Ahhhhhh….

And he’s a first-time Dad to baby-boy Finn, who’s almost 8 months old.  I think Sixes are natural Fathers.  Peter is so gentle with Finn, and loves to hold him and isn’t too much of a dude to baby talk .  It’s actually quite adorable!

So, a few of the positive qualities of type Six that I’m bringing to light here: they can be amiable friends and community members, doting Dads….and they have the capacity to make most people feel safe and attended to.  Oh, and they aren’t afraid to be goofy.

I think being a Six is a VERY good thing!



Comments
Cristina Favreau on August 2nd, 2009 at 10:15 pm #

I’ve fully embraced my 6-hood and love it!

Rachel on August 3rd, 2009 at 12:15 am #

Hey Cristina!

I’m excited to see you on here! Glad you’re joining the conversation. :)

What do you love about being a Six?

Also, I hope you’ll consider joining the community site at http://enneagramlovers.ning.com.

Sandy on August 3rd, 2009 at 10:47 am #

In all the workshops that I have attended with panels of type – you can see the similarities between the people on the panel. The sixes just seem like a mixed bag – and they so often don’t agree with each other about what sixishness is all about.

This post was cool for me because as a self pres 6 with a strong 7 wing I could relate to all of what you described about your good friend. That is I can relate to it when I am at my best.

Dina on August 3rd, 2009 at 4:12 pm #

I am happy that what I wrote resonated with you…and I, too, am glad that you were willing to post about it. Feedback about my assumptions is soooo helpful. I am always refining my impressions. I love this enneagram stuff. How long have you been studying?

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